Offers Vs Compromise !!!

When you have so much to offer, why you will compromise?? Many things offers you a lot in your life, a beautiful body by genes, exercise and proper diet, knowledge by learning, judgment by experience, success by hard work, dedication and determination, so on and so forth, and when you have made yourself with all beautiful things to offer to the world. Then why the hell you will compromise when you want to achieve some more from world. This random thought came to me while i was traveling to San Jose, CA from Atlanta GA, in flight women next to me brought some serious topic and this is how i have explained to her. She is consultant like me, quite intelligent and smart, with beautiful face and perfect toned body, however she almost cried over telling me that this is her 5th breakup in a year, no one want as she is. I said whats the problem?? She started saying, she is double graduate and an MBA, works for very reputed company, earns enough money, and all those things i could judge about her without telling me. I said, you have everything that most people wish for, so whats the problem?? Well I was in relation for 5 years, married, was really dry run and getting divorce, however i am going out with 3 year old son as baggage to most people thats the problem. huhhh!!! All i could say was, Are you compromising with relations and trying to make it work?? She said, How do u guess it?? Because, I could!! And here is line for you!!!! When you have so much to offer to the world, why the hell you will compromise?? She said, thank you for reminding me!!! A very much thank you!!! She started smiling, and i lost the pain of loosing my flight twice because i was stuck in freaking Atlanta traffic for 2 hours and half for 30 miles distance and never to take US airways flight, worst customer service. Came out smiling, thank god i could make someone smile today!!!

The pursuit of happiness !!!

Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness. These are the words that keeps people motivated all the time. If you are following your dreams with actions, eventually you will accomplish, no matter how poor or how little education you have. I really liked the movie about Chris Gardner played by Will Smith (one of the best, and the kid is awesome). Just how this man went from a low paying $13,000 a year medical job to being homeless on the streets of San Francisco to earning millions per year and finally owning his own stock brokerage / investment firm that does $100 Million Dollar deals is an amazing story. Chris Gardner being homeless, never once abandoned his infant son, that is even more of an accomplishment, even though no wife, no job, no house. Key Points from movie: Hard work (Boy, home, work and school) Focus (exclusively on the work that will lead you to where you want to go) Goals(Money, Career, each day, weak, month, year) Sacrifice Keep Learning Just keep moving forward. Contd...

My Friends !!!!!

Groups and Types: Funny: Serious: Kids: Old peoples: Social Service Volunteers: Family Friends: Siblings: Cosines: Colleagues: College Juniors: College Seniors: Parents: Neighbors: Gals: I am gonna write some funny and memorable incidence i had with them. Coming up!!!

Googling 4 Diagnosis !!

Welcome to the world of free knowledge people. Search engine websites are acting as biggest and widest knowledge source for self consultancy over billions of subject. Then why not Googling for a diagnosis? Why not to look at Wiki for disease information? And yahoo medical for drugs and medicine information? Thats all you need to be consulting and being doctor yourself, however that is risky but nice enough to know about things you wanna know. There are many article on Dr. Google, just ask google itself :)) Some useful link: www.tripdatabase.com (Evidence-Based Medicine source) http://davidrothman.net/2006/11/12/more-opinions-on-dr-google/

Weird Dream- Bagpipe Man !!

It was my annual appraisal result, in my company our CEO plans to appreciate the employee in different way!! So, It was surprise for most of employee that how or what they have been treated or received. I work 9 to 5, My surprise was waiting for me at the door, since it was surprise, you don't know whats happening, i was working and working, so rather then usual 5PM exit from office i went out about 7:30PM, and in the door this Bagpipe man was waiting for me, He was waiting there for me almost two and half hours, So anyhow he has to play something for me, He started playing ...and i started to get amazed over music and thinking this is what my CEO has done to appreciate me, It was the most unpleasant music i would have ever heard, seams his frustration and anger over waiting for two and half hours came out in his bagpipe...I could not control the laugh and also, over the idea of my CEO.

I got ticket for crossing red signal

How do u feel, Its Cleveland Clinic Area where signal are like 200 feet apart, and you are involved with the thought that u know someone at the hospital and trying to read whats around, whats department, suddenly there's flashlight from back and flashlight from front....at night taking picture of your car... There u go...I am crossing the red signal....I have no idea how much i will be charged but feeling really freaky...about my thought came up in midst and took my whole driving consciousness. I have crossed and being picured in Independence/Constitution Drive in Washington DC as well, crossing the red light.

Dancing in Cuyahoga National Park, Peninsula !!!

Om Dancing in Cuyahoga National Park, Peninsula !!!

Random Dreams !!!

I used to love sharing my dreams with my friends and siblings when i was young..After longtime when clouds of memories went away; I started dreaming again...its quit random ..with some i am flying some, i scared and fighting ..and in most i am having good time. Some of them are here: Family: It was 7:30PM in the night, came home after hell of work from office...dressed in executive office suits, having Mercedes key rolling in my finger, suitcase in other hand..knocked the door..a little boy of age 4-5 came to me...Princess!! Papa is home..I work 11AM to 7:30PM, since i wanted to spend more morning with family than evening. Boy looked pretty much like me...same voice and same smile and same big eyes and big head as i was when i was about same age. Still smart and very observant.. looked at me and said to her little sister..He is got something...and my little daughter princess..somehow she was white..about three, very beautiful and got an accent.. She started looking into my eyes for me to bend and kiss her on her chicks ..she is one of the cutest kid i have ever seen... She called.. 'Momy, dad has got flowers'....(Indian don't call momy..they call mummy or maan...)...before she(the girl in my dream) could turn and i could see her face..i had my cell phone ringing... Dude I am at the airport...Gate number 4....come and pick me up fast.... Holy Cow!!!! What the hell... The phone ring was real...and that broke my dream ..just second away to her, who really was that beautiful lady...with whom i am having this beautiful dream in my life...GOD......What to do now...I don't know...but Cant forget that for hours..... Snake Fight: I am young, 17, along with many of my friends we have planned to go for picnic, crossing a river which becomes like pond(Dahra in Hindi) during summer since two side of it for long and long distance ..is just water Anyway we have decided to cross the river and go other side for picnic...so along with my friend we assembled at river bank early in the morning, after few minutes of planning ..friends started jumping into the water to cross..i was the last one to jump. Being the best swimmer in the group..within a minute i crossed everyone and was going real fast ...after few more forward slap ...I am way ahead of everyone...seams the the weather was cloudy...i could not see the sun..and then looked at the deep water when i was in the middle. Lot of things started coming into my minds some stories and scary animals into water and weird creatures ...started swimming real fast ..being scared and can't wait for everyone in the middle; the deepest and scariest. After few more farward stroke...i started seeing some really weired things swimming around me...some fish...but seamed to me like they have got hands ..and trying to swim like me...some ...frogs ..not jumping but..singing weired songs and got wings...i really started to get scared and starting shouting to friends what i was seeing...they got scared ...and seamed to me they stopped .. They were at 1/4 and i was at 3/4...other side seamed closer to me...so without looking anything heading straight and fast...suddenly i saw this one head...looked yellow white..fish like head but more close to snake....further more and two more head same....few more slaps and ...god there were more then dozens of head looking at me... And ...and ...as i was about to move forward...a giant structure with all head connected to that ...came ...creating the huge whirlpool ahead of me ... Holy crap!!!! Thats freaking multi headed snake ..that we have heard in stories...about this river..which is 50000 year old...I could not believe ...its happening in front of me to me... Before those multi dozens eye could see me...I took deep breath...straight went inside water...running away from and not to get caught into that whirlpool...came out 25 meter away from that creature ..that was my longest inside water swimming and deepest breath kept hold.. ever!!! Now i am 25 meter away from that creature straight running towards the other side...that creature saw me with his all eyes possible ...started coming in my direction with whirlpool And i followed what i could, deep breath come out..deep breath come out.....saving myself about meter or so each time to not get caught into that freaking whirlpool and head..and tail...everything... After about this fight of 5-10 minute ...i was close the bank...i could see my life being saved ..and realizing i could live with what i have ..and i have done it......looked back...that creature ...put his tail...about 25 meter in air ...seamed its gonna hit me right into my head before i could realized i have done it. I said nnoooooooooooooo.....I cant have that things possible to me...when my dream to live alive is in front of me...i can save myself...i have done it all the way here...then this one will happen as well....I went inside the water ...looking for his tail ..silently...caught it..when the bank was 5 meter away...so he thought he hit me....and i thought catch his tail and come out of wanter with it and jump as soon as it will be in air. To my own believe...It did worked ...I caught it...hold it firmly...before he could pull me in...i jumped 7 feet hight above his tail into a tree branch...looking exactly like heroes does in Chinese movies He put his tail in air again to put the tree down...before he could come to me...i jump...10 feet after shaking the tree into the river bank...ran into the wall created other side and climbed 10 more feet to see how that creature is looking at me...all those multi dozens eyes..straight on my face I was happy and succeeded ...my friends were returned to other side...could not see what i did...but believed i was in some kind of trouble and they dint make it... Dream, does not end here....as it was supposed to I am in the other side...to go back to my place..either i have to go 25 mile away bridge or go to the shallow and shortest distant water side to cross. I thought scoring over the second one wont be big trouble...after all i have saved myself with that giant snake..I was hero ..but no one was there to cheer....whatever...i was tired and just rested there for rest of my day and thought i will plan to look for shallow and shorter path in the morning. In the night i was alone in the jungle...with weired noise coming from allover ..looking at the water from distance ...thinking about how that thing has survived here for so long...and all those thoughts...next morning it was beautiful sunny day...looked at myself...ready big guy. So i started walking on the side of river ...close to it so i could see how deep it can be...after few miles...i thought this looks okay and..thinking that things can not come here...he does not know where i am...so made my whole plane...first 10 minute slow...next while i will around middle and deep...cool...no noise and very slow...and last very fast...that was whole thing in my mind. I did throw a stone to see how deep the water is.... And then not to believe.... Boom SSSSSS...all those dozen head...came out from no where....and made the noisiest hizzing sound i have ever heard ...with tung out in every mouth...lips looked like gonna catch me now. I run as fast as i could...then looking back...the first two head started spitting over me...trying to save myself...i started running even faster...then looked back again..all those heads started spitting..those spits are becoming like balloons and following me. I came out long and close to a hut...saving myself...with those hundreds of balloons... When i was close to hide myself ..Boom....one caught me... holy crap!!!! It felt ...cold..slippery things ..came above my head and bursted...i was allover its liquid...As soon as one balloon caught me..rest disappeared But One, more which took some shape of another animal i have never seen...I was close to hut...i screamed and and thought now what ..is that gonna chase me...then there was young beautiful gal in about her 16 came with big stick...saying try scaring the animal...we both did...but that animal stands there and started taking some shape and seamed listening what we talked....this gal said ...did they caught u...i said yes one bubble... Then that animal said..that was my sister ... what??? yes ...she was egg ....of our mom that you were fighting in the river...she tried to say something in the middle and u dint listened ...so she followed but not to harm u.....that egg was suppose to stuck on u...not to burst...now it did. Am in some kind of trouble now or poisoned? No u need to leave your first skin...all my siblings went away...i came here to help u out...sooner the better. A what?? Leave my first skin, i am not a snake ...i don't leave skin. But you have to do like we do every seasons, thats the only way...before the sun goes down ...else..you have to do that every seasons like we do...for you it will the first and last time. Listening to this, scared and nothing but have to... How will i do it.... The other gal from hut...suggested i just had boiled water...i can throw over you...and its done... whatttt??? You wanna throw a boiling water over me to remove my first skin...are u crazy??? i will die.... Then that creature said...i have to take u to the place where u can do it...without pain...but u have to trust me. Trust u...why?? Because i want to save u...... Looking at things around me seamed pretty weired ...i thought if she thinks so... ..i followed her ...and other gal came with me just in case....3 of us...to the place that creature was taking ...about walking half a day..tired and hunger...we reached to the place where that animal talked about I said, so what i have to do? she said...you have to go into that little pond..that looks like filled with water.. but thats not water...you will come out with ur first skin left...and off course...you will be way smarter than one u look now and lot more..things. I said, i look good now...i don't need anything...just i don't want to change my skin every seasons and come here to take bath... Well Would you like to know why i came here? Why? Do u know no body has ever succeeded in crossing the river from where u did in last 50000 years... aiin ain...I don't believe you!!!! You have to... many came around middle and ..after looking at one or two weired creature like us they have scared and turned back...you did it.... Really!!! My Mom is 50000 year old...she has 12 daughters to get married ...one died trying to stuck on you...second one is me..second in number...other returned home.... It looked to me ...hundreds in number... No..those were ..same jumping again and again taking multi faces... whats that... unless i wont come back to the my normal state ..i can double and tripper as much as i want.... What state.. I can be human... What??? You can be human?? Yes...the most beautiful girl on the earth, the most intelligent girl on earth..and..i will always be there for you..and only you!!!! How can i believe you? As u did till now...I learned your language...as i talked to u... I can get your genes ..I mean i can be human...if u want... How?? You have to bite me...believing in me, after taking the bath from that pond...since you will be the most intelligent and handsome man on earth...you will have every choice you want....you have to choose me...then only i will tell you...how you can be that person but not just what you are..Your trust will be my faith.... Its not that i want that kind of person....however I really wanted to see you in human body... Are u sure? ...what i am gonna do is going to affect you...the way you wanted to be...and what about your family? They have been waiting for years and years its 50000 years now..that thing happens to anyone of us...so everyone will set to live free life...they wont be human...but they will be whatever they want? So, my this thing is going to work for everyone? Yes, but there is one problem? Problem? What? Since you will become as i said...u will be having dreams of luxury ...beauty..power ..and all other things in front of you ..U might get drawn by them...and forget about what i said...You will not be the same person anymore...you will forget everything i am saying now...I will have just one choice after you will come from the pond to tell again...and believing on that you have to bite me...if u will not...i will be ..like what i am and will return to river stay with my family for another 50000 years... Well..Whats your worry?? Being a female..the clouds of worrying will aways be there on us...and what i am giving u is my trust...trusting you will save us... Whats worry?? What if you really get drawn towards.... You are worrying too much?? It has happened with my mom...50000 years ago...thats why...she says..trust is very important...it takes time to understand and trust someone...but then ... So, someone turned your mom down?? Yes, she was heart broken...and completely torn... her dreams shattered... Well, that was that guy...not me... $$$$$$$$$ .....(Keep visiting my blog..will be coming up with, What happens to me, what about other gal with me, she one of most beautiful gal i have seen and was very nice and caring to me as well, will i go to the pond, what i will do after coming ..what i will i choose..will i forget about her...everything coming to you soon....) Contd..... Flying above the cloud: Arguing with prime minister: High School Result before declaired: Dancing with Kate Winslate: A train Journey with Einstein: Five in Love: Picnic inside water: Old house: Road above tree: Fighting with tiger: Naked God's philosophy: Picnic with Ram, Krishna, Jesus Christ, Buddha, and Allah:

Why..I am Like This!!!

When people turns to you, and says, you are great, nice, caring, loving, intelligent, smart..what do you think of you? Proud?? Me, starts digging over the reasons what makes you think of that....Heres some..why I am like this... From day one i could remember one thing is leading, even though walking with grandpa i was running ahead and telling him..whats ahead...I could never be follower, if i have to ...it kills me. Why I lead? because i am too observant, and my practical experience which has shaped my principle values. I could remember the incidence ..walking back home from the village pond after taking bath, how a socially structured caste based system cause my childhood friend hurt, when she(old high caste female) turned herself 10 feet away , to pass this little boy from lower caste when there was only one way to go. How do we shape our values? Community: System around you, the culture which comprises believes and behavior, senses, standards and expectations of the community you live around. Many things around me happens without direction, because i grew if in that culture which defines me. For example, If i believe in "Truth is GOD and thats only GOD", then no matter where i am, church, mosque, or temple, I am not gonna visualize the 330 millions of Hindu god and goddess, Jesus Christ, or Pagamber Hazarat Muhhammad, I am seeing them is a form of truth, that they came into the world and did good for humanity. What i am and How i will be is ..culture i am getting from places i have lived, my culture is continuesly shaping. Thanks to the global communication people from my village are aware of some western culture, by Films, TV, news paper and more than anything internet and cellphones. Parents: They play the biggest role in making who you could be, they see you in the places where they have dreamed of before you start thinking where u wanna go...so they can shape for anything they want...their life can teach you million things, when I say I have proud family, its not that my parents dint fight, they haven't seen trouble in their life, NO..they had their share like everyone has...However one thing i have always promised and known is ..they are gonna make things work together. Being a little kid and swimming into their dreams can make you do many things, that you might be doing now ..and not noticing. For example..my mom never gives me lunch if i have not taken bath :)) Education: When you are grown up, your major decisions you take in life is greatly influenced by your education, whether its your life partner, your job, what you wanted to be in life, everything is affected by education. Its master key for your holistic development. I still amaze over myself when i do different things than could have...Consultant, USA, Me ...here..Its my education who brings me here... Early Experience: I remember "Your character comprises what you do on third and forth times". If i have learned to tell the stories about me...its because my this experience will count someday to some people. I don't carry the sophistication in my language but certainly knowledge and sense. Events happened with me counts as experience has made me confident on my statements, It has set my standards and expectations. My standards says, I can never be in the list of options to something or somebody, If i am not in priority then i am not there. When I was little kid, working in farm plowing, planning, planting taking care of two bulls we had ...the things i have learned was importance of doing good work, appreciations and incentives which usually comes after 6 month of your hard work....thats long time..but at the end..Its worth.

Folk@Youtube ..Thanks A lot

When we came outside our birth place we dont know sometime we miss something..like me..even though i like all kind of music, eastern and western; i still miss music from my area..very local folk music..we know ppl personaly who sing and dance in those, that personal..thanks to youtube and ppl who are uploading them for bringing it to larger population. Here are some nice songs i got..I still miss some Lakshaman Masturia and Old Dadaria music..and Panthi geet..Lets see if someone upload i will thank a lot. Chhattisgarhi Tura Nai Jaane chhattisgarhi suva geet Mor dil ma gira ke bijaria yeh sajan-2 bana le mola sajania mola apane rangale Santhali -Video

Being Engaged.......

What a wonderful feeling isn't it? Engaged...WOW!!! I have been free for long time..by thoughts that cud have posted to me ..but not by myself...until yesterday..i got things to do that engaged me which i really enjoyed...I went to passport project ...spend couple of hours with kids .....worked in designing some bazillion costumes..had a chit-chat with kids..beautiful part is many of them Remembered me 'Mr Om'..are u gonna teach us dance ...well yeah!!! Feeling continued since yesterday's evening hours..one of my friend told me ..spider man ..danced exactally like me....so while on Shaker Sqr walk..thought lets watch ..and i could not believe..the dance was totally me ..in the streets and outside the building...I laughed my A$$ off!!! Last 20 seconds is totally me.. This one more than 50% are my dance ..however someone remixed the sound track. Came home..quite late..did not wanted to cook but 10:45PM..there was no choice to eat junk food or cook...choose the second option..cooked something really nice..Daal(Soup) and Basmati Rice..eat..hot..awesome...and rather doing anything else..straight went to office mail..seams i will be in St. Louise, ..happy..felt completely engaged..so thought lets watch something i wanted in the field of medicine ..since Cleveland Clinic Foundation, Cardiovascular Medicine department has invited me day after..so CCF being the best in US for heart specialty ..i started watching open heart surgery video just to know how they do it..tired at 12:30PM and slept well. This is morning at 7:30AM...and i am writing after 30 minute walk over the pond, 40 minute to have breakfast and my favorite startbucks coffee..seams best thing is..I am enjoying the day before sunrise and its really nice day..I am completely engaged...by the way not with gal..if u thought so..right now...I have Zero in list even to think about..and don't want to add any for now...have a great day.

Om Dancing in Grand Canyan!!!

Dare to Dance in Such a place!!

Pink Floyd- The Greatest Band Ever

Photo: -Pink Floyd band Member with Bhasker Menon in the middle You call it greated rock band ever or greatest band ever...and is...they are legend..they created the music that ppl had listened are listening and will listen. My introduction to the band was with T-Shirt someone in my school wearing it, back in august 1995. That was the time when i was introduced to the english music, my first English video i remember was Natalie Imbruglia(Torn) when DD Metro was available for two hour slot for MTV. During that year, i saw dude staying room below me in hostel got gitar and big speaker playing english rock songs, went to see his room, dark, smoked ..big poster of Pink Floyd and T-shirt with Pink Floyd written in it. Asked few questions, Liked few songs because of music back then my english was really weak to understand any of things what they were singing. Year 1998-1999 was preparing for some exams was reading about few femous ppl doing good or done wonders in different sectors, read about Bhasker Menon, chairman and CEO, EMI and Capitol Music Worldwide, Who played the central role in leading the promotion and marketing of Pink Floyd's album Dark Side of the Moon. Thats where the bigining of Pink Floyd in US biggest ever. After few years when i started going out to listen english band in Mumbai's small english/Irish pub called ATIS in Bandra i started listening many of their songs and liked those as i listened. Thats where probably i have danced some ...but the flr was so small that it could be crwoded with 10 ppl. But we enjoyed it, nice food and good music. Few year later came to US, everything here is Rap/HipHop, i was surprised with my discovery what i could do with this music, went to club danced with few two feet apart. But never got the songs and music i wanted to listen...since last year i started going out more with my american friends, payed lot of attention to music here understands few and dance with mosts. Howver none of them sings to my heart ...as Pink Floyd did...I recently listened to the Trance mix of 'Education/wall' ..I loved it and danced like no body does with ruling the flr for straight 10 minute. Few more things i would say, this bad has represented the youth, the culture, the anger, the frustration and giving the light...if you listen to the Dark Side of the Moon, you will understand what i am talking about. Also they are greated band ever who have done lot of experiments with the music, that were truelly ahead of their time and music of the future..thatswhy it rules now..and will rule in future. My fevorites (Almost all but still) The Dark Side of the Moon Wish You Were Here The Division Bell The Wall

Some Songs I love Forever!!!!

Stand by me (Orig- Ben E King ) Forever Young (Orig Alphaville) Pink Floyd-Wish You Were Here

What should be my new phone!!!

Well, Yes I am little Geek on few technology stuffs, I bought the HT 3.2 GHz tech high end laptop when it was just release spending money that is not even its 30% worth, then i bought the iPod Video before it released in market thru eBay, bought the Cingular 8125, when it was the first phone with WiFi both b/g ..So i am thinking now to change my phone with new one .. Heres the shortlists -------------------- Microsoft oPhone Apple iPhone Cingular 3125

Why ?

When a relationship is dying we press hard to make it alive and working again ...do you know why?? Hope.... it will work!! But, Isn't this funny..to have hope for this whys!!!! >> Why do we press harder on a remote control when we know the batteries are getting dead? >> Why do banks charge a fee on "insufficient funds" when they know there is not enough money? >> Why does someone believe you when you say there are four billion stars, but check when you say the paint is wet? >> If people evolved from apes, why are there still apes? >> Why is it that whenever you attempt to catch something that's falling off the table you always manage to knock something else over? >> How come you never hear father-in-law jokes?

Gone are the days...

Gone are the days... When the school reopened in June, And we settled in our new desks and benches. When we queued up in book depot, And got our new books and notes. When we wanted two Sundays and no Mondays, yet Managed to line up daily for the morning prayers. We learnt writing with slates and pencils, and Progressed To fountain pens and ball pens and then micro tips. We began drawing with crayons and evolved to Colour pencils and finally sketch pens. We started calculating first with tables and then with Clarke's tables and advanced to calculators and computers. When we chased one another in the corridors in Intervals, and returned to the classrooms drenched in sweat. When we had lunch in classrooms, corridors, Playgrounds, under the trees and even in cycle shed. When all the colors in the world, Decorated the campus on the Second Saturdays. When a single P.T. period in the week's Time Table, Was awaited more eagerly than the monsoons. When cricket was played with writing pads as bats, And Neckties and socks rolled into balls. When few played "kabadi" and "Kho-Kho" in scorching sun, While others simply played "book cricket" in the confines of classroom. Of fights but no conspiracies, Of Competitions but seldom jealousy. When we used to watch Live Cricket telecast, In the opposite house in Intervals and Lunch breaks. When few rushed at 1:45 to "Conquer" window seats in our School bus. While few others had "Big Fun", "Chock-o-bar","kulfi ice" and "Pepsi" at 2:00 Clock. Gone are the days Of Sports Day, and the annual School Day, And the one-month long preparations for them. Gone are the days Of the stressful Quarterly, Half Yearly and Annual Exams, And the most enjoyed holidays after them. Of tenth and twelfth standards, when we Spent almost the whole year writing revision tests. We learnt, we enjoyed, we played, we won, we lost, We laughed, we cried, we fought, we thought. With so much fun in them, so many friends, So much experience, all this and more. Gone are the days when we used to talk for hours with our friends. Now we don't have time to say a HI. Gone are the days when we played games on the road. Now we code on the road with laptop. Gone are the days when we saw stars shining at night. Now we see stars when our code doesn't work. Gone are the days when we sat to chat with friends on grounds. Now we chat in chat rooms..... Gone are the days where we studied just to pass. Now we study to save our job Gone are the days where we had no money in our pockets and fun filled on our hearts Now we have the atm as well as credit card but with an empty heart Gone are the days where we shouted on the road. Now we don t shout even at home Gone are the days where we got lectures from all. Now we give lectures to all... like the one I'm doing now.... Gone are the days But not the memories, which will be Lingering in our hearts for ever and ever and Ever and ever and Ever..... NO MATTER HOW BUSY YOU ARE, DONT FORGET TO LIVE THE LIFE THAT STILL EXISTS. (From someone like me)

Bryan Adams, Rod Stewart & Sting - All For Love

When it's love you give I'll be a man of good faith. then in love you live. I'll make a stand. I won't break. I'll be the rock you can build on, be there when you're old, to have and to hold. When there's love inside I swear I'll always be strong. and there's a reason why. I'll prove to you we belong. I'll be the wall that protects you from the wind and the rain, from the hurt and pain. Let's make it all for one and all for love. Let the one you hold be the one you want, the one you need, 'cause when it's all for one it's one for all. When there's someone that should know then just let your feelings show and make it all for one and all for love. When it's love you make I'll be the fire in your night. then it's love you take. I will defend, I will fight. I'll be there when you need me. When honor's at stake, this vow I will make: that it's all for one and all for love. Let the one you hold be the one you want, the one you need, 'cause when it's all for one it's one for all. When there's someone that should know then just let your feelings show and make it all for one and all for love. Don't lay our love to rest 'cause we could stand up to the test. We got everything and more than we had planned, more than the rivers that run the land. We've got it all in our hands. Now it's all for one and all for love. It's all for love. Let the one you hold be the one you want, the one you need, 'cause when it's all for one it's one for all. It's one for all. When there's someone that should know then just let your feelings show. When there's someone that you want, when there's someone that you need let's make it all, all for one and all for love.

We choose to live with someone!!!

unknown: Hi om_baghel: what the F*CK..i get everyday tens of request to add friend in myspace om_baghel: you are one...right..why do u guys do that...cant you read my profile atleast before poking unknown: I read your profile, nd I'm not among those, thanks if u dont wanna talk om_baghel: Thanks and sorry for being rude, what you want to talk about.. unknown: I am Sick bcz of 1. Gals 2. Bear 3. Food 4. Did Monkey dance to please some hurt person ...which has made me to listen to this wussy song u call it. I read that in one of your comments, last one made me interested to talk about om_baghel: 1. Its too much to think about gals, to much to envolve into it..they takes, time, money and energy, and when they take hearts its like loosing yourself. 2. Bear(Beer)..I had it after months..Its cold for me ...it hurts my throat..and it did after i took last weekend 3 Food...I am not cooking...and i am missing it too much... 4. Yes, Someone got hurts by someone, i was spectator, thought i could help both..i did one for sure, for second one i did danced and and jumped like monkey for more than hour..so she could laugh...worst part is i dont even know her name..but she laughed over my monkey and bear..all zoo dances i did for her...and got my leg size doubled and very rosy..... unknown: You are funny, Have you ever been in love... om_baghel: Have I? I dont know about love but got hurts for sure...dont u read my blogs, its http://ombaghel.blogspot.com unknown: That does not answer my question om_baghel: I can't answer your question, but can tell you for sure, we choose to love...those are lucky once with whom it happens.. and when it happens...keep it...waiting is worth...if u r worthy...Choosing it not bad...love comes softly..no matter what we are, where we belongs, what color we have, what believes we have, what religion we have...Love is largest believes in the world, biggest religion of all kind, You can't trust GOD about results, but you can to the person whom you love. unknown: Thats very thoughtful.. om_baghel: Thanks

Missing You - John Waite!!!

Every time I think of you I always catch my breath And I'm still standing here And you're miles away And I'm wondering why you left And there's a storm that's ragin' Through my frozen heart tonight I hear your name in certain circles And it always makes me smile I spend my time thinkin' about you And it's almost drivin' me wild And there's a heart that's breakin' Down this long distance line tonight I ain't missin' you at all Since you've been gone away I ain't missin' you at all No matter what my friends say There's a message in the wire And I'm sending you this signal tonight You don't know how desperate I've become And it looks like I'm losin' this fight In your world I have no meaning Though I'm trying hard to understand But it's my heart that's breakin' Down this long distance line tonight I ain't missin' you at all Since you've been gone away I ain't missin' you at all No matter what I might say But there's a message that I'm sending out Like a telegraph to your soul If I can't bridge this distance Stop this heart break overload I ain't missin' you I ain't missin' you I can lie to myself But there's a storm that's ragin' Through my frozen heart tonight I ain't missin' you at all I ain't missin' you I ain't missin' you I ain't missin' you Missin' you

Define Compromise!!!

Love happens for the first time, next is compromise!!! Life could be lived for bigger, longer is compromise!!! There are many things to be counted as to define the freaking thing called compromise, we do everyday in life. When compromise is a only solution then its too hurting..since its like giving up..which person like me would never except..Giving up for what..hopeless person will say...it was not made for me...hopeful will say ...well you will get better than that...and definite one will say..you A$$$Hole you lost it.... Now lets say you frame it as ..Giving!! Not giving up!! Then learn it for loved ones ...Its very healthy..satisfying and means a lot than its actual worth.

Define conversation!!!

Conversation is exchange of same vocabulary (not just words but expressions, feelings, emotions and expectations as well). So to carry out conversations means to understand each other; It is essential to carry out same vocabulary and have same system of logic otherwise there will be misconceptions more than once. For an example with my personal experience...Someone wrote to me 'so, you are mad' ..It could have two meanings, first 'you are crazy' second 'Are you mad at me' ...if u miss out to understand out of its translation, then you could take first ...which i did and a thread of misunderstanding started, emotion takes different turns, feelings started changing, expectations were hurt, and expressions with your next conversation were completely out of context that could have never passed. Basically it was big failure...we lost the track of speaking same language. So the freaking things happened because i learned the English language where some words has different semantics; and different logic. English is not spoken same around the world, there are 330 millions ppl in India who know English, 270 million in US, 220 million in Europe, and around half of the total in other world with different semantics and logics for many words. One more biggest killing factor for conversation is Inferences of previously known logics we have passed to the same person we are having conversation, basically it brings hell lot of uncertainty when we try to start conversation next time with different logic, sometime it give challenge but most of the time in relationship it gives uncertainty and cause loss of trust. This is even funny when translations takes place in different language..See How some common english sayings wud bcome funny when translated in hindi??? (Back to English in bracket) Have a nice day! ----- * अच्छा दिन लो! (Take a good day) What's up? ----- *उपर क्या है? (Whats upstairs) You're kidding! ----- *तुम बच्चा बना रहे हो! (You stay kid) Don't kid me! ----- * मेरा बच्चा मत बनाअो! (Don't make me kid) Yo, baby! What's up? -----* बेटी यो, उपर क्या है?(Daughters, Whats upstairs) Cool man! -----* ठंडा आदमी! (Cold person) Check this out, man! ----* इसकी छानबीन करो, आदमी! (Investigate this person) Don't mess with me, dude.--*मेरे साथ गंदगी मत करो, ए व्यकि्त (Kinda same but its funny) She's so fine! ----- * वो इतनी बारीक हैं! ( wow, she is tiny) Listen buddy, that chick's mine, okay!?--*सुनो दोस्त,वो चूजा मेरा है। ठीक (Listen friends, that baby chicken is mine, alright) Hey good looking; what's cooking? ----* अरे सुन्दरता की देवी, क्या पका रही हो(oh goddess of beauty, what is that u r cooking ..(something to eat) also oh goddess of beauty,what the hell, you are making me bored ) Are you nuts? ----- *क्या आप अखरोट हैं? (Are you somekinda fruit's nut) Son of a gun.----- * बच्चा बंदूक का. (Wow, you are baby of a gun in real) और सबसे बेहतरीन (Even Better) Rock the party. ---- * पार्टी में पथ्थर फेंको. (Throw stone in party) How do you do? ----- * कैसे करते हो? (How you manage to do so, double meaning) Keep in touch...... * छूते रहो. (Keep touching) Lets hang out!....*चलो बाहर लटकते (Lets go and hang ourselves outside)

Define Feelings!!

Feelings for each other keeps the relationship alive as long as this bond exist ..you will always have thread to reach to your lover, if this is dead everything is dead. Let the feelings comes naturally out of geography, race, believes, personality, don't count the differences and try to be with someone you think you can change – find someone that enhances the wonderful person you already are – one who if you have to stand alone – you could but are happier with when standing together.

Define Obsession!!!

You see that...something is dominating over you...and you don't wanna see that...it could be thoughts, persons or anything basically that is driving your energy at the moment and most of the moments ..means you have got obsession. Being a maths student, if i would make a graph between X(Time) vs Y(energy) spend on things you are obsessed with you will get a line...which might be going upward at the beginning and downward if u r loosing ..however it remains as straight line if you into it. You could come out of obsession by making your things which you are obsessed with as a subject to your analysis. By the way ..their little difference between feelings when you have doubt on your lover and obsession in case of love ..don't ever make your lover as your subject to analysis. You will loose otherwise.

Define Love!!

When we say we're in love ...what does it mean? "Complex, Dazzling, transformative feeling is just a illusion?" Or could it be a trick played by nature to insure the attraction for biological needs. Love is all sorts of complex behavior served the same behavior on purpose as moral behavior to another one, i.e. fairness, kindness, self-sacrifice ...that has nothing to do with character, or personality or your simple goodness...may be its illusion.. Wouldn't it sound complex for normal human being ...Yes it does...fairness in your character with nature's trick is enough to have love in your life. Make it simple..Love is simple..

Greatness of America -Politics 08

Speeches, collected and modified.... ----------------------------------- Greatness of America — not because of the height of our skyscrapers, or the power of our military, or the size of our economy. Our pride is based on a very simple premise, summed up in a declaration made over two hundred years ago: "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal. That they are endowed by their Creator with certain inalienable rights. That among these are life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness." That is the true genius of America — a faith in simple dreams, an insistence on small miracles. That we can tuck in our children at night and know that they are fed and clothed and safe from harm. That we can say what we think, write what we think, without hearing a sudden knock on the door. That we can have an idea and start our own business without paying a bribe. That we can participate in the political process without fear of retribution, and that our votes will be counted — at least, most of the time.* Will be coming up with more contents on it ...w.r.t. election 08.